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In Memory of LeMonte B. Jacobson

 In Memorium

July 10, 1934 - May 27, 2022


LeMonte Burton Jacobson was born on July 10, 1934 to Walter and Muriel (Paulson) Jacobson of Litchfield, Minnesota. LeMonte joined the Navy as a teen and served during the Korean war aboard the U.S.S. Whitley, first as a Machinist’s Mate and then as a Cook. After his discharge from the Navy, LeMonte met and fell in love with Barbara Janet Maitland of Minneapolis. The two were married on November 23, 1956 after a whirlwind three-month romance. The engagement was so short that many folks around them predicted a short marriage. The couple was determined they would prove those folks wrong, choosing Carl Smith’s 1954 hit “Loose Talk” as “their song.”* LeMonte and Barb had four children between the ages of one and eight when they decided to leave Minnesota to “find peace of mind” and boarded a train bound for Arizona in 1966. Once they left the Land of 10,000 Lakes, LeMonte led his family on an adventure around the United States.

LeMonte was a chef by profession, working in restaurants and country clubs across the nation. Kitchens where Chef LeMonte (aka “Jake”) worked included the now defunct My Brother’s Place in Glendale, AZ; the historic Pink Pony in Old Town Scottsdale where he met Gunsmoke star Amanda Blake, a number of other actors, and famed baseball players; the Gourmet Restaurant at the Disneyland Hotel in Anaheim, CA; the Little Harbor Club in Harbor Springs, MI; Nick and Arthur’s Place in Miami, FL; Bentley’s in Lake of the Ozarks, MO; the Treadway Inn in Lancaster, PA; and the Chart House in Lakeville, Minnesota. LeMonte was working in Atlanta and the family living in Chamblee, GA when they welcomed their fifth child in 1970.

The Jacobsons ventured to run two restaurants of their own, the earliest being The Redwood Inn in Forest Lake, MN. They later ran L & BJ’s Steakhouse in Sisseton, SD with all five teen and young adult children on staff. As his career progressed, LeMonte was guest chef on morning television and was in demand as a troubleshooter for kitchens in trouble. By the time he retired, LeMonte was Food and Beverage Director of three hotels in Killeen, Texas. As such, he was instrumental in providing space for medical triage after the 1991 shooting at Luby’s restaurant, for which he was awarded a certificate of thanks by the City of Killeen. LeMonte received a number of awards for his cooking, including two from the International Geneva Association.

Of all the states where the family resided, Arizona was LeMonte’s favorite, so he and Barb returned for good in 1993. In the mid-1990’s, LeMonte joined Veterans of Foreign War Post 9399 in Apache Junction, where he served two terms as Post Commander from 2007 – 2009. LeMonte and Barb were both very active in the Post and Auxiliary, with both holding various officer and committee leader positions over the years. Two of their daughters were also active with the organization for a number of years, and the entire local family pitched in to run the kitchen during Big Band Saturday Nights and New Year’s Eve events.

After retirement, LeMonte and Barb spent a few summers running the kitchen at Spotted Horse Ranch in Jackson Hole, Wyoming while living the rest of the year in Mesa.  In 1998 LeMonte required emergency vascular surgery while in Jackson Hole. Once back in Arizona, LeMonte began working for Mesa Schools serving lunches to high school students at Westwood. In 2008, he transferred to Skyline where three of his grandchildren would graduate. He finally fully retired in 2010 after the death of his beloved wife, Barbara. LeMonte and Barbara really did show those who thought their marriage would be short-lived how wrong they were. They celebrated their 54th Wedding Anniversary in 2010, just three weeks before Barb’s death.

LeMonte Jacobson left this world shortly before midnight on Friday, May 27 after a short time in hospice care. He was 87. He is preceded in death by his parents, his brother Marlyn, and the love of his life, Barbara. He is survived by his sisters Crystal Osterberg and Joann (Joseph) Nesser, his children Suzanne (William) Cherry, Sally Marvaino, Jane (Sherman) Rogers, Charles (Becky) Jacobson, and Matthew “Jake” (Stephanie Bennett ) Jacobson. His legacy includes 15 grandchildren and 20 great-grandchildren.

A memorial service will be held on Father’s Day June 19 at 5:30 pm at the VFW Post 9399, followed by a potluck supper. The Post is located at 133 N. Saguaro, Apache Junction, AZ 85120. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to the VFW Foundation in honor of LeMonte B. Jacobson at https://www.vfw.org/foundation or to Hospice of the West at https://hospicewestaz.com/make_a_donation.php


*On LeMonte and Barb's 50th Wedding Anniversary, their children and grandchildren presented the following video. The song "Loose Talk" was written by Ann Lucas and Freddy Hart in 1954, and recorded by Carl Smith that same year. According to Joel Whitbum in his 2004 book The Billboard Book Of Top 40 Country Hits: 1944-2006 . It was at the top spot of the Billboard country and western chart for seven weeks and held on for a total of 32 weeks. It has been covered by a number of Country artists, including Patsy Cline. Barb and LeMonte often sang this song together during family "jam sessions." The lyrics are below the video for those who are curious.




Loose Talk

So long we've been married 
Life's burdens we carried 
Though they kept us humble and made our love true 
The plans that we make up 
Someone seems to break up 
Oh, darlin', what else can we do?

[Chorus]
We may have to leave here 
To find peace of mind, dear 
Some place where we can live a life all our own 
For I know you love me, and happy we could be 
If some folks would leave us alone 

While I go out walkin' 
There's of loose talkin' 
They say we're unhappy and we'll break apart 
But, darlin', it's not true 
Because I still love you 
And I do with all my heart 

[Chorus]

They say that you're leavin' 
That you are deceiving 
But you tell me they say the same about me 
But we'll show them they're wrong 
That loose talk will do harm 
And hope that the truth they will see 

[Chorus]

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